Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

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INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER!


"Rarely have I read a book that challenged me to see myself in an entirely new light, and was at the same time laugh-out-loud funny and utterly absorbing."--Katie Couric


"This is a daring, delightful, and transformative book."--Arianna Huffington, Founder, Huffington Post and Founder & CEO, Thrive Global


"Wise, warm, smart, and funny. You must read this book."--Susan Cain, New York Times best-selling author of Quiet


From a New York Times best-selling author, psychotherapist, and national advice columnist, a hilarious, thought-provoking, and surprising new book that takes us behind the scenes of a therapist's world--where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).


One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose of-fice she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.


As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.


With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.


Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is rev-olutionary in its candor, offering a deeply per-sonal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly reveal-ing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.

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432 pages

Average rating: 8.07

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Minnygal
Apr 24, 2024
9/10 stars
Hit all the feels! A goal of mine this year is to read more nonfiction and memoirs and this was beautifully written, weaving her work as both a therapist and a patient.
Karilappin
Jan 19, 2024
8/10 stars
I wasn’t so sure I would enjoy this book based off the synopsis but it was honestly quite good. The author did a great job at telling her story, while tying in the stories of her patients, while somehow simultaneously relating to the reader. I would describe as a “self help memoir?” (Kindle)
kelatta
Jan 13, 2024
10/10 stars
I was not expecting to love this book as much as I did. The author skillfully weaves together her own story with those of her patients to talk to us about the universal human need for a life of meaning. A narcissistic TV exec, a young college professor and newlywed dying of cancer, an older woman with trail of damage and a suicide deadline, and a Gen Z alcoholic. It takes someone who knows both their crafts well—therapy and writing—to bring the...read more
BookClubAddict
Dec 11, 2023
8/10 stars
Enjoyed this touching and laugh out loud memoir that reads like fiction. It's the story of a therapist who fi ds herself confronted with a big life problem and she must find her own therapist which challenges her to analyze herself. She details the lives of five patients and become a better therapist as a result lof her own therapy. It's very funny and is under contract to be developed for a series with Eva Longoria. If you have ever been in th...read more
Carol.Ann
Nov 16, 2023
8/10 stars
What a surprising, satisfying story. I generally enjoy memoirs anyway, but this was much more than that. Quite honestly, don't we all find it interesting and often entertaining to "see people more messed up than me" (Good Day song by Jewel)? The experiences portrayed here are touching, relatable, humorous, and sometimes heartbreaking but the best part is that you see character growth. Lori Gottlieb is a fantastic writer and wise therapist. And s...read more

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