Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body

From the New York Times bestselling author of Bad Feminist: a searingly honest memoir of food, weight, self-image, and learning how to feed your hunger while taking care of yourself.

"I ate and ate and ate in the hopes that if I made myself big, my body would be safe. I buried the girl I was because she ran into all kinds of trouble. I tried to erase every memory of her, but she is still there, somewhere. . . . I was trapped in my body, one that I barely recognized or understood, but at least I was safe."

In her phenomenally popular essays and long-running Tumblr blog, Roxane Gay has written with intimacy and sensitivity about food and body, using her own emotional and psychological struggles as a means of exploring our shared anxieties over pleasure, consumption, appearance, and health. As a woman who describes her own body as "wildly undisciplined," Roxane understands the tension between desire and denial, between self-comfort and self-care. In Hunger, she explores her past--including the devastating act of violence that acted as a turning point in her young life--and brings readers along on her journey to understand and ultimately save herself.

With the bracing candor, vulnerability, and power that have made her one of the most admired writers of her generation, Roxane explores what it means to learn to take care of yourself: how to feed your hungers for delicious and satisfying food, a smaller and safer body, and a body that can love and be loved--in a time when the bigger you are, the smaller your world becomes.

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320 pages

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margardenlady
Dec 27, 2023
8/10 stars
Gay shares her difficult path through life and the effect that a [then] undisclosed rape at age 12 framed her life and self image for years. Although primarily a revelation of her life as a very tall, very large woman has made her a target for fat shaming from even the most well intentioned persons, she also examines sexual abuse, race and eating disorders. This book and did more for my understanding and appreciation of the need for Universal De...read more
Anonymous
Dec 04, 2023
8/10 stars
I've never heard of Roxane Gay, didn't know who she was and was only half listening to Trevor Noah interview her on The Daily Show. I ended up stopping what I was doing to listen to what she was saying. She wrote a book about being fat?

http://cc.com/shows/the-daily-show-with-trevor-noah/guests/tds-roxane-gay/oifn27/roxane-gay---fitting-into-the-world-in--hunger----extended-interview


Hunger is a memoir of her body. Gay was gang raped at the age...read more
E Clou
May 10, 2023
8/10 stars
This memoir is both very interesting and very moving. I could relate to a lot of what she wrote about since nearly every woman in America struggles with weight loss (even the thin ones seem to stress about it). There were also many things about life in the BMI numbers above overweight and obese that I was unaware of and therefore perhaps not sensitive to - for example, some of the accommodations that are necessary. I like Gay's collection [b:Bad ...read more
Anonymous
Apr 26, 2023
10/10 stars
Should I - or anyone - be allowed to rate a memoir?
Do I even have the right to rate a memoir as vulnerable and brave as this one?

When I picked this up, I expected something so well written that I'd swoon at words, sentences, paragraphs. That expectation was met. I expected something confident and a little bit in my face. A little bit of this expectation was met. What I did not expect was what I mostly got - bare bones and sensitivity and humili...read more
Anonymous
Apr 07, 2023
8/10 stars
A difficult read. Not because of the writing. Writing was brilliant. But the content, the rawness and realness and truth of it all. Hard. I’ve been through a roller coaster of emotions with this book everything from judgement, anger, annoyance, fear, sorrow, respect, love, recognition. It has challenged me and made me think. What conclusions have I come to? None. Zilch. Zero. But I think this book will remain with me for a while to come. Did I en...read more

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